Calling 9-1-1


It doesn't matter who calls 911 - you, a child, neighbor or stranger. A call to 911 starts a process that often goes far beyond your immediate need for help. It draws the complexity of the criminal justice system into your life.

He's One of Us

When police respond to a domestic violence call, officers are to use all reasonable means to prevent further abuse. Their actions can differ depending on whether the responding officers are from your abuser's department or another jurisdiction.

When co-workers are the responders, personal relationships, his rank, and department policies influence how they handle the situation. Responding officers may know him even if they are from another department. Even if they don't know him, once he identifies himself as a cop or firefighter, they usually treat him differently than they do a civilian abuser.

They may be reluctant to believe that a fellow officer or friend is a batterer. They may be less likely to believe and be sympathetic to you. They may feel conflicted between upholding the law and protecting another officer's job.

Officer Discretion

Responding officers may use their discretion on how to handle the call despite department policy. They may extend "professional courtesy" by not filing an official report, by not collecting evidence at the scene, by not making an arrest, or by not notifying supervisors about the incident.

They may pressure you not to pursue charges. There may be a blatant or a subtle threat to your safety if you decide to cooperate with an investigation or prosecution.

Your abuser may be able to manipulate responding officers into arresting you by claiming that you assaulted him. They may not listen to your story or believe that you were acting in self-defense.

Police Report

The police report is a key factor in the prosecutor's decision to pursue charges. A well-prepared report clearly identifies all parties present at the time of the incident; provides an account of events from everyone present; details the responding officers' observations of the scene; and summarizes the responding officers' actions.

It is important that you read the report to verify that it is accurate. This guards against any discrepancies between the batterer's account of events and yours, plus any tendency the responding officers may have to describe the incident in a way that is favorable to their colleague. If the report is inaccurate, you should request that the department amend the report to include your account of the incident.

Access to the police report will vary across jurisdictions. Some police agencies or prosecutors readily provide a copy of the report to you. Other departments and prosecutors may only provide a copy of the criminal complaint, not the report.

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What You Can Do

Many departments have policies for responding to general domestic violence calls. Fewer have policy specific to officer-involved domestics. Your local domestic violence advocate may be able to help you determine whether proper procedures were followed.

To help ensure appropriate response, you can:

  • Try to get the police report number, the names and badge numbers of responding officers.
  • Insist that a supervisor is called to the scene. (Many departments require this by policy.)
  • Give an honest account of what happened. Include if you have been drinking, if you used physical force against the abuser in response or because you felt threatened. If you do not provide a complete account of events at this point, any inconsistencies that emerge later will hurt your credibility or could lead to your arrest.
  • Write down everything you can remember about the incident as soon as possible. Your account should include who was present (including children and other witnesses); what everyone said and did; any threats, physical attacks, and property damage; the cause and severity of any injuries; and what the police said and did when they were there. Don't forget to include the date and time.
  • Take pictures of the scene and ask someone to photograph any bruises or other injuries, even if photos were taken by responding officers and/or at the emergency room. (Pictures should also be taken 2 to 5 days later because bruises darken with time.) Take pictures of any damaged furniture, broken doors, damage to your car, or other property damage. The photographer should not be a family member or friend that the defense could portray as biased. The pictures should be processed with a date and time stamp and signed by the photographer.
  • Keep notes, photos and other documentation in a secure location that the abuser can't easily access. For example, a locked cabinet in an advocate's office, a safe deposit box, or with your attorney.
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